Parenting Doctors Podcast

The Ultimate Family Sleep Challenge

This week's parenting podcast is The Ultimate Family Sleep Challenge!  We are all sleep deprived.  We as parents need more sleep.  Our children need more sleep.  Today, I present the Ultimate Family Sleep Challenge. 

Let's consider the behavioral sleep recommendations and consider how we can apply good sleep practices to the kids.

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Social Media Stress Management

There are many stressors young people face.  I go through some of the stressors young people are facing as reported by my colleagues (social workers, psychologists, professional counselors, and others) throughout the country.  

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Your Prescription for Passive & Aggressive Behavior

Dr. Dan explores the key solution to manipulation and passive aggressive behavior.  He says that parents need to name it.  And encourage (even expect) direct and honest communication.  

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Truth Emerges Out Of A Relationship

Today's podcast is about an argument between a father and a son.  A father goes on to try to enforce the son to tell the truth with discipline, consequences, and punishment. 

When situations develop within the family, truth emerges out of a relationship.  When there are parent-child power struggles, multiple perspective can develop.  Parents involved in family details may develop elaborate consequences but this will not deliver the truth.  Love and the relationship is what brings forth the truth.  

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Respectful Disagreement

Many parents inquire about "encouraging disagreement."  It might sound better if I emphasize "allowing disagreement."  Many ask, "What does that mean?"

The new generation of healthy families consists of multiple ideas and perspectives.  If teens don't feel heard, they feel shut down.  If pre-teens aren't respected, you come across as a tyrant.  If young children aren't encourage to think on their own, their ability to think for themselves is dimnished.  These individuals might then be easily moved and manipulated by a charismatic personality, for example.  

This podcast discusses key aspects of respectful disagreement in the family.

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Tough Adolescents: Exiting, Waiting, & Overlooking

I present two interventions today that can make a difference, along with some key tips for healthy functioning when dealing with a tough adolescent.  

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Stop Pathologizing Childhood With Specific Problem Solving

Many parents pathologize childhood using terms like "He's an attention seeker," OR "She's so oppositional," OR "He's a tormentor," OR "He's A defiant kid!"  

These kinds of vague descriptions may help us cope, but they do nothing to help children help.  We need to help kids recognize that behavior is based on choices.    

We offer a 5-step specific problem solving method that is the answer to these behavior problems that all kids have.  

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Helping Kids With More Self Compassion

Kids may be starting school soon.  In FL, school is in full swing.  Many schools are completing their first full week.  Some of the kids are in a "candy store."  Many others are overwhelmed.  Kids are experiencing pressure, stress, and demands.  Lots are being asked of them. 

We want to reinforce self-compassion! I also provide a mindfulness technique using smell that can help kids get out of their overwhelm, into the present, and experience less stress.  

Tutoring for Video Games????

Parents are paying $20 an hour and sometimes as much as $50 an hour for video game tutors.  What's the problem with tutors?

1) Lowering self esteem and confidence 

2) Reinforcing addiction (video game)

3) Reinforcing followship rather than leadership

 

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Are you dealing with a child with an anger problem and you don’t know what to do?

Check out the following videos at our Parenting Doctors youtube channel:

The Dr. van Ingen Clinical Psychology & Parenting Show on Anger.

(Dr. Dan and Professor Dr. Sarah present together) on Loving Angry Children: 5 Golden Coin Insights to Working with Anger in Families

This week's podcast presents 5 techniques, 5 ART's: Anger Reduction Techniques, that can help both parents and their children (kids, preteens, teens) when they are experiencing a cross over the threshold and into the therapeutic zone.  

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